Reality check

Reality checks don't always have the harshness that one can spin on it.  I got a very beautiful reality check yesterday from a friend.  Sometimes you need that.  Sometimes you need a friend to ground you when you build chaos from your fears and assumptions.  I am lucky to have such a wonderful support system.  They make me a better person.  When a person has your best interest at heart it reminds you that they want you happy.  They want you in a good place.  They want you to be authentic you...whatever form that comes in.  That's a reality check I can live with.