Tuesday, June 6, 2017
Unexpected and wonderful
So now that Lovie1 has graduated and has this place as "college home", I figured I would give him a name. Not his real name. A code name. Ethan, if I had birthed a child. And by all practical purposes, "Ethan" has always seemed like what my biological child would come out like. He looks like me. He has a lot of my traists. Today was my day off. I had a hot lunch date with Jeremy. Our friend LT was going to stop by and check on our our game console. It crapped out. But "Ethan" and I were texting. I explained I like checking up on my friends so it seemed natural to also check in on him. He was doing great but was hoping I could bring some stuff from home. He wasn't exactly sure of the housing place name. But in the cobwebs of my mind when I went to UTSA, I remember a housing name close to what he was saying. I have Google on my side so I confirmed orientation students were indeed housed at this place when I called. And waited until he was free from obligations of school. I was being helped by a girl who was part of the reception desk at the housing. I had texted I was there. And she said it would be okay to call him. I was about to do that. I smiled and my heart melted just being able to say I was dropping something off for my son. I was about to call when I saw him. I had put the items in a back pack. Plus, two insta meals he didn't need to refrigerate. I didn't expect a hug. After all, we're in public. But he did. Because he's my son. I asked about dinner for tomorrow. He may or may not be home by then. He has to stay on campus. I told him I had put two insta meals in there for him and turned to leave and gave him a backwards air kiss. We just talked for a little while right now. LT took a look at the console and worked his magic. It works again. It wiped out the game we finished but I don't care. Again, just checking up on how Ethan's day was, I texted him how things were going. We talked for a bit. I shared some of my experiences and the opportunities that come with having a college experience. I let him know how I was proud of him. And then proud he was going to my alma mater. This was unexpected and wonderful. As "Ethan" has his college experience, I will reflect on mine along with being able to share in his stories and experiences. I did some laundry and dishes. Now, time for more House of Cards binging.
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