Checklist

I'm curious.  Do men and women have a checklist? I used to think I did.  But if you saw my dating history you would notice I didn't stick to that list.  In fact, my checklist, if I had one picked me.  I wanted him tall.  Check.  I wanted him intelligent.  Check.  I wanted him to accept the wonderful mess that is me.  Check.  I wanted to be Best Friends with him. Check.  Jeremy's checklist was Female and do we click probably.  Maybe that's why I always say on paper we sounded like a mess.  I didn't count on him making the checklist.  I just fell in love with the quirky guy that he is.  I imagine you have box people in a checklist for any reason you miss out on the other wonderful things they can be.