There is a dance that whether you are a friend, a family member, or even a significant other you have this dance with that person. You
There is a dance that you have with different people in your life. Whether you are romantic or other you find a dance. You start learning the ins and outs of this person. You learn how to "dance" in your relationship. Sometimes that dance stops. It's usually because one or both of the people realize that this isn't work. Any relationship requires work. I don't mean the type where it is excruciating. I just mean that any relationship requires that the "dance partners" find a way to exist in the same space and make the existence work for both. They work together to create "a dance". I thoughts about gestures yesterday. People make gestures to make others know that they care. But what if the gesture is that they don't know how to make a gesture but if you ask...they are happy to do it. I believe that it is still a gesture. I am learning that not everyone has this grand creative process. And that's okay. We all have different parts to us. But a gesture...well...the gesture starts that dance.
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