Clarification is a wonderful thing to me. So many times, myself included, have mistaken a gesture, sentence, or something and interpreting it incorrectly. There is also clarification on requests It's been a new concept for me to voice certain things. Sometimes it is a bother. Other times, it is about wanting something. There is a possibility a person may still decline what you request. However, at least they know what you want or need. They aren't mind readers. And for so long, I discredited that anyone would bother with my requests or that I was asking too much from a person. Now, I leave that up to them. I deprive a person who does love me to do something for me. Likewise, if a person does ask for something I want to know that so that I can oblige the request. I am an accommodating person. It's a choice I make. And when I love someone, whether friend or love...it's what I do. Although, I am so stubborn anyways, some people just get my bullish need to care for them and their well being. And I don't really give them the choice on the matter. So, clarification is a good way to be sure on what message you are receiving. That way nothing gets lost in translation or communication is blurred. It's just a thought for today. A recent conversation inspired these thoughts.
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